Sunday, February 2, 2014

Fuck the Haters

I do not understand the "Hater" culture.  So often people have statuses on Fasbuk, of pictures with text saying "Fuck the Haters" or "Fuk the H8rs." What Haters?  You work at Subway, you are close with your family, you have a small but tight group of friends, and you probably are crazy about Dr. Who - please tell me where you found these "Haters" because I'm pretty sure no one gives a fuck about your life.  There is this whole culture that derives from our internet usage, where people need everyone to know they don't care about their "haters."

I thought haters were silly and I scoffed but then I realized I had haters.

Haters in fact, on my BLOG.
My little blog where I write about silly stuff.  Seriously, I write about my rabbits and cute phone apps- and I have haters.

There are people that have never met me, and do not know me, that stalk my blog and talk shit about me.

Luckily I have readers that are friends, family, and even people I don't know who tell me they like reading my blog and I get sweet emails.  It's for that stuff that I keep having a blog.  So many people in my life are scattered all over America, and here is a site where they can be updated on me or whatever I feel like talking about.   I even have a pretty solid reading base over in Asia, how cool is that?

Nonetheless, some people out there wanna hate on my harmless blog, unfortunately it's usually girls and it's usually girlfriends of my ex boyfriends.  How sad, right?  I've been told there are girls who get angry just at my name coming up in conversation.  These "haters" talk shit about my appearance, my weight, my family, etc.  I like to remain open and honest in my writing, but just because I'm willing to be vulnerable doesn't mean I will let myself be hurt by the cruel words of haters.

What really bothers me is a hater talked shit about this video.



This is a video from 2012 where I took Blizzard to the park in his pink angel harness.  Buzz filmed it, an in it Blizz explores the outside and hops around and I giggle like an idiot.  Yes I admit I sound dumb in this video, but I am okay with that.  Why?  Because I am fucking happy in this video.  I love this video and I love this memory.  I love that rabbit more than most things in this world and he is dead now, this is one of the best videos I have of him.

Yet, some hater talked shit about how stupid I sound and couldn't believe someone would date me.  Why?  Because I'm a dork who loves bunnies and I giggle in a park?  You're right, I'm so not girlfriend material.

It doesn't even make sense, like if you are going to insult me at least have good points.  Like this post where I look like a serial killer and talk about how self conscious I am.  Or that I was homeless for a year and had really short dykey hair.  Or that I dance really silly and sometimes I forget to wear deodorant.

Just don't insult my babies.  Don't insult my bunnies.  Don't insult my Blizzard.

I wish I could talk shit about the various girls that have caused me pain.  My haters.  I've had many over the years.  Most notably would be my Arch Nemesis, Tori Weaver.  But I don't even want to insult her.  She just got out of jail and seems to be doing well.  She messaged me and wants to make amends.  This time I think she is being genuine about it.

All of my haters are all just girls that are insecure about me.  I've already talked about Girl on Girl Hate so I will try not to be redundant. But, I understand why they do the things they do.  I just don't understand why to the extent.  I've had girls steal boyfriends, friends, even family for a little while, from me.  I've had girls share naked pictures of me to my grandparents and all my Fasbuk friends.  I've had girls get me kicked out of where I was living, and steal clothes/money/drugs/etc. from me.

And now I've had girls talk shit about me being happy with my pet bunny.

Really, haters?  You can't do better than that?

I'm not really asking for a challenge.  But I will say that I will not tolerate anyone talking shit about Blizzard.  Like a samurai, I must protect the honor of my family and I.  If anyone dishonors my family again, I will scalp them like Beatrix Kiddo did Orishi Ren.

I will now end this post with photos of selfies and bunnies.  Because I love me, and I love my babies.  This is my blog to share what I want.  So yeah, fuck the haters.